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2018年11月20日 (火曜日)

Those who speak well of you does not have integrity in rearity

A Japanese proverb says "ko-gen reishoku sukunashi jin" in English those who speak well of you does not have integrity in rearity.  We need to be careful whether a person's praise is real intention or just a sycophancy.
This decision is very important when we pay something or when we decide our partner.  There is a common example. A person praise us and provide us many positive information.  The other does not speak much and do not praise us.  Which person we should believe?  Most people choose the former person because we are delighted when praised.  However, as is usual case with us that the former person tell a lie to us for his purpose, on the other hand, the latter person is honest to us.  If we know this, we will select the latter person.
We can not judge whether the word from the person is real intention or not by the word itself.  So we should be careful about the attitude or direction of eyes of the speaker.
We should also notice that we should not accept good information or words straightly.
I hope yo uwill have a nice time this week.

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